A Linked In Tip

You know that feel­ing you get when something’s just not right? I get that feel­ing every time I get an imper­sonal Linked In invite to con­nect. I reg­u­larly get invites from peo­ple I haven’t spo­ken to in quite some time. I’m amazed at how often those invites are the default “I’d like to add you to my pro­fes­sional net­work on LinkedIn” with­out any fur­ther personality.

Let me get this straight? You’ve not spo­ken to me in years and the best you can come up with is that?!? Well, then I’ll def­i­nitely accept your invitation.

Truth is, I accept all of the invites that come across like that, but I really notice peo­ple who take a few sec­onds to write some­thing more personal.

We all want to stand out, espe­cially on Linked In, where we con­nect pro­fes­sion­ally. Why not take this oppor­tu­nity to start a more per­sonal con­nec­tion? To remind the per­son of some­thing you shared and why you want to con­nect? Or sim­ply show that you have an inter­est in the per­son enough to over-write the default invi­ta­tion with some­thing that reflects your personality?